In a society where expectations can be harmful, 17-year-old Duncan finds himself torn between two vastly different men. He’s been dating Tristan, an older man who embodies ‘traditional’ Western masculinity—where real men don’t wear makeup and don’t show vulnerability. His oppressive beliefs leave Duncan grappling with feelings he can’t quite express.
Enter Aron, Duncan’s vibrant new co-worker, who defies every stereotype with his flamboyant style and unapologetic authenticity. Aron’s colourful perspective clashes with Tristan’s rigid views, pulling Duncan into a twisted game of tug-of-war. As Aron accuses Tristan of being dangerous and controlling, Tristan labels Aron as a lewd influence trying to lure Duncan away.
Caught in a web of manipulation and deceit, Duncan must navigate his evolving identity, confront his own internalised homophobia, and decide who he can truly trust. Will he find the courage to stand up for himself, or will he remain trapped in a dynamic where the stakes are higher than he ever imagined?
In this gripping contemporary fiction, How to Understand Him explores toxic masculinity, domestic abuse, the complexities of identity, and what it’s like to be a gay man struggling against societal norms.
Join Duncan on his journey towards self-acceptance as he fights to find out who he truly is. Perfect for fans of LGBTQ+ narratives, this poignant story of resilience and discovery will resonate with anyone navigating how to be their authentic selves.
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